Lokendra Awasthi

प्रकासित पोस्ट का सम्पूर्ण पात्र तथा घटनाहरु काल्पनिक हुन कसैको जीवन सँग मेल खान गएमा सन्योग मात्र हुने छ ।  कुरो केहि बर्ष अगाडिको हो । उस्को र मेरो भेट भएको खासै सम्झना त छैन । भेट त भयो तर कुरा गर्ने आट कहिलेइ आयन । साथिले भन्थ्यो लभ लेटर दिनु पर्छ अनि त केटी आफै पट्टिहल्छे नि । लभ लेटर त दिए तर अर्कै को झोलामा परेछ ।फिल्म मा जस्तो फाइट गरेर इम्प्रेस गरौ जस्तो लाग्यो तर साथिहरुले कुटाइ खान मानेनन । साथिहरुकै आइडिया थियो पहिले उस्को मिल्ने साथिसँग मित्रता गर्ने , एकदिन उस्को साथी र मलाई सँगई देखिछ , अनि त 'भिनजु' भन्दै गैइ ।

You are not a failure until you allow your mistake to define what kind of person you are. Failure is, when your hopes, going things not going the way you wanted them to. Failure may be defined in different case, just as in studying, playing, love, in being a good person, in holding the relation etc.  The definition of failure is different for us. Most of us take on the identity of a failure without really knowing what it is all about.  Failure according to the dictionary is ceasing to function, breaking down, non performance and I have found that our definition of breakdown, non performance are not correct. We think that we are a failure when our parents give up on us or when we make the same mistake again and again or when after a long time we are not getting success, we have always dreamt or when we re not financially sound in life as we hope to be. These situations are not what make a failure. They may be setbacks, defeats, low determinations, that are to be overcome. A fa